Saturday, April 23, 2005
it is not the end of the world
this is a copy of the big news update i have sent out to friends and family. so i figured i would cover all bases and make it global news to. life is too short to keep so many secrets, and in the end of it all who gives a fuck? so read on and experience a little bit of my pain and anguish...
i am going to keep this some what short and to the point. as you know both cherry and i have been quite excited about the fact we were pregnant. well, bad news. we had a miscarraige the other day. we spent the last wednesday and thursday at doctor consultations, ultra-sound rooms, and hospitals. so for now, it is over. we are definitely sad and heartbroken over it all. the news was shocking at first and numbing straight away after, but we are dealing with it. there is not much we can do about this now, and there is absolutely nothing to regret. in the end, it just was not meant to be...
however, on the bright side- there is a future. we are both alive and healthy. most importantly, we know we can get pregnant (the all natural way). truly the last is the best thing we could have possibly taken away from this experience. so it has given us something to look forward to in the future.
i don't want anyone to become alarmed by this news. we are fine and moving ahead. our immediate plan is to take a well needed and somewhat deserved holiday up the coast. we plan to leave in a few days when work finishes up for me, and we are both fit to travel. we have been so grateful for all your support, congratulations, good vibes, love, encouragement, and positive energy. all of it was well received. thank you.
i am going to keep this some what short and to the point. as you know both cherry and i have been quite excited about the fact we were pregnant. well, bad news. we had a miscarraige the other day. we spent the last wednesday and thursday at doctor consultations, ultra-sound rooms, and hospitals. so for now, it is over. we are definitely sad and heartbroken over it all. the news was shocking at first and numbing straight away after, but we are dealing with it. there is not much we can do about this now, and there is absolutely nothing to regret. in the end, it just was not meant to be...
however, on the bright side- there is a future. we are both alive and healthy. most importantly, we know we can get pregnant (the all natural way). truly the last is the best thing we could have possibly taken away from this experience. so it has given us something to look forward to in the future.
i don't want anyone to become alarmed by this news. we are fine and moving ahead. our immediate plan is to take a well needed and somewhat deserved holiday up the coast. we plan to leave in a few days when work finishes up for me, and we are both fit to travel. we have been so grateful for all your support, congratulations, good vibes, love, encouragement, and positive energy. all of it was well received. thank you.